Care recipient (cr) has great difficulty using knives forks and spoons and is angered when caregiver (cg) offers help special silverware doesn’t make much difference cg who eats with cr is often cleaning spills crumbs and stains from cr cr’s place at the table and clothes

Try: #offer non-messy finger foods sliced up fresh fruits and vegetables chicken legs fish sticks cheese cubes small baked potato wedges etc #make or heat hearty soups and serve them warm not hot in travel mugs with lids so the contents can’t spill out easily make sure the vegetables rice or noodles can get through […]

Care recipient (cr) is injured and unable to do many household tasks while recovering has not thought about how cleaning shopping meal preparation pet and plant care etc will occur during recovery period caregiver (cg) worried that cr assumes incorrectly cg will handle everything

Try: #sit down once or several times with the cr help him or her plan let the cr know kindly but firmly that you are unable for your own reasons to take on the responsibility of doing all the tasks and chores #encourage the cr to write down a list of tasks and chores that […]

Care recipient (cr) has trouble sleeping well through the night

Try: To go to bed around the same time every evening #turn off the television a half hour before preparing for bed #try some music reading crosswords or word games to relax #any evening prayers of the cr should be respected by his or her caregivers try Materials: #when medically reasonable limit drinks for an […]