Care recipient (cr) gets frustrated preparing meals changes in stamina strength and attentiveness make it hard for the cr to get groceries and to regularly perform tasks related to cooking such as planning meals lifting or mixing ingredients and using appliances safely

Try: #plan meals and shop for groceries a week in advance so the kitchen is always stocked with what the cr needs to prepare meals #organize the kitchen so the cr can easily reach the most commonly used tools and foods #work with the cr once or twice a week to prepare some major dishes […]

Care recipient (cr) with increasing confusion frequently takes pictures and small objects from their usual settings and moves them around the room sometimes fragile items are dropped

Try: #replace the glass in picture frames with plastic sheets or remove glass and leave the frames uncovered look for sheets of clear plastic in office supply stores #cover tables in the cr’s living quarters with tablecloths if doing so will decrease the chance of items breaking when the cr picks them up or sets […]

Care recipient (cr) is agitated and difficult to deal with

Try: Try to accept the fact that you sometimes cannot change a difficult person’s behavior the difficult behavior may be deeply ingrained in the cr’s personality and habits adjust your body language tone of voice and use soft words to help diffuse the cr’s anger being in control of yourself will help you be in […]

Care recipient is agitated and irritated

Try: Do not try to restrain the cr when agitated if a specific incident has caused the agitation distract the cr with a snack or game to take the mind off the cause limit caffeine sugar and junk food keep noise and clutter to a minimum allow only a few people in the same room […]

caregiver (cg) is getting burned out caring for cr care recipient

Try: Don’t do everything yourself enlist the help of out-of-town siblings and other family members make a list of care giving tasks that you think out-of-town siblings and other family members may be able to assume responsibility for on a daily weekly or monthly basis some tasks could be done from long distance while others […]

Care recipient (cr) gets combative when agitated

Try: Try to determine if there is a pattern to the agitation does it occur at the same time every day or just randomly if the agitation occurs every day make a note of what the cr is doing at that time of day and in what environment if the environment is noisy or there […]