Care recipient (cr) makes repeated requests that cannot be honored or granted for various reasons either not physically or financially possible and gets upset frustrated and sometimes lashes out either verbally or physically toward caregiver (cg)

Try: Try to refrain from using the actual word no when dealing with impossible requests find alternate words or suggestions try saying what a great idea i’ll have to see if we can work that into our schedule sometime or i really wish we could do that but we’ll need to wait for the weather […]

caregiver (cg) has negative feelings towards Care recipient (cr) because of difficult behavior and gets frustrated and angry

Try: Cg needs to understand and deal with negative feelings before the anger and resentment is turned toward the cr cg needs to give themselves permission to have these feelings step away from the situation and try to identify the different feelings – anger frustration anxiety or depression try to isolate what particular situation or […]

caregiver (cg) suffers from stress when trying to establish a daily routine for Care recipient (cr) because cr refuses cg feels that cr is too set in their ways materials

Try: Cr may not be trying to be difficult they may have just discovered over the years what works for them and makes them comfortable the cr’s routine may not be the most time effective routine for the cg but the cg should realize that their cg’s routine may have been dictated by necessity due […]

How to recognize and cope with caregiver (cg) distress signals

Try: If caregiver is feeling inadequate about their caregiving abilities experiencing anger or resentment toward Care recipient (cr) suffering from excessive fatigue but having trouble sleeping losing appetite having a sudden weight gain or loss losing pride in their appearance having trouble concentrating or focusing on specific cg tasks neglecting personal health problems or issues […]

caregiver (cg) is worried that Care recipient (cr) will wander either outside or go into certain areas of the home that are not as safe but cannot be closed off by a door

Try: Try placing several parallel lines of reflective tape on the floor in the doorway either going outside or into an unsafe area this will resemble a grate to the cr and they will be reluctant to cross over try hanging rows of beads or fringe across the doorway place a dark throw rug in […]