Try: Try placing several parallel lines of reflective tape on the floor in the doorway either going outside or into an unsafe area this will resemble a grate to the cr and they will be reluctant to cross over try hanging rows of beads or fringe across the doorway place a dark throw rug in […]
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What are some of the warning signs that would indicate care is needed
Try: Forgetting appointments unopened mail – unpaid bills abnormal weight gain or loss spoiled food or no food in the refrigerator burn marks on countertops regular neat housekeeping turns into mounds of clutter and trash withdrawal from regular social activities wanders away and gets lost forgetting they have just called someone and calling them again […]
What plan should be in effect if the full-time caregiver (cg) has an emergency medical situation and has to leave the Care recipient (cr) immediately
Try: Compile a list of emergency contact numbers and leave the list in several prominent places around the home one being on the nightstand of the cg first on the list should be names of someone to call who can come immediately and take over the temporary responsibility of care family members who are close […]
caregiver (cg) spouse is having trouble assuming a spousal care role and feels resentment toward Care recipient (cr)
Try: Realize that some of this resentment stems from the fact that this cg cr situation isn’t the way retirement should be turning out it will be difficult moving into and assuming a role that the cr used to occupy because all of the responsibilities of this role could be unfamiliar to the cg this […]
What are some clues to look for to know when someone should stop driving and how to get them to stop clues to look for getting lost and not being able to find the way home dents and dings in the car or the garage problem using turn signals or using the wrong turn signal problems reading and interpreting traffic signs driving at inappropriate speeds – too fast in town and too slow otherwise confusing the brake and accelerator pedals turning too sharply and hitting the curb locking the keys in the car loosing the car in the parking lot
Try: It may help to have a figure of authority to speak on your behalf with the Care recipient (cr) ; a physician or a friend have a mechanic disable the vehicle so it can’t be driven hide the keys sometimes even after the cr stops driving it may give them comfort to still have […]
Spouse of caregiver (cg) needs suggestions for handling situations when mother-in-law or father-in-law Care recipient (cr) moves in
Try: Realize that there will be many changes in the normal daily routine discuss all potential problems that may arise beforehand with your spouse who is assuming the role of cg try to lend support to your spouse but at the same time recognize that the increased caregiving load will affect your time together as […]
caregiver (cg) needs to take Care recipient (cr) to a family event which requires long distance travel
Try: If air travel is necessary make sure the airline and airport are notified if a wheelchair will be necessary be prepared for anxiety and confusion – take along familiar objects; a favorite afghan or pillow small photo album of family pictures or a favorite book on airplanes or trains cg needs to take the […]
How can a family member who lives away from a parent know when caregiving becomes necessary
Try: Establish a communication network with neighbors and friends of the parent they will probably notice any changes in routine or behavior that could mean there is a problem in other words establish a support network before it becomes a crisis of care make sure the parent leaves a key with a neighbor so entry […]
How can a family member who lives away from a parent know when caregiving becomes necessary
Try: Establish a communication network with neighbors and friends of the parent they will probably notice any changes in routine or behavior that could mean there is a problem in other words establish a support network before it becomes a crisis of care make sure the parent leaves a key with a neighbor so entry […]
Care recipient (cr) is agitated argumentative and resistant to any suggestions of the caregiver cr
Try: Sometimes the best approach is to re-approach the situation before anger sets in catch your breath or just walk away and return in a few minutes with a new approach or new wording to the request remember as in most areas presentation is the key to success if the cr balks at a certain […]